Feeling disconnected from pleasure,
your body, or your partner?
Everybody and every body, deserves safety, belonging, love, respect and pleasure!
Elizabeth Herr

Great relationships and great sex start with safety, self-confidence, playful curiosity, and effective communication. When we feel safe, we have the capacity to play and be curious.
As an embodied sex and relationship coach, I help individuals and couples shed shame, embrace pleasure, and cultivate more connected relationships — no matter your age or stage of life.
My work is trauma-informed and non-clinical. You are the expert of your own lived experience; my role is to hold a safe, compassionate space for you to explore what’s possible.
Reconnect with pleasure, desire, and your body through the changes of perimenopause and menopause.
Rebuild connection, communication, and intimacy with the person you love.
Individual coaching, workshops, retreats, online courses, and celebrant services.
“I thought this part of my life was over. I was wrong — and I finally feel like myself again.”
— J., 54
“Elizabeth made it easy to talk about things we’d avoided for years. We’re closer now than we’ve been in a decade.”
— M. & R., together 22 years
“I finally understand that nothing is wrong with me. I just needed the right space to explore.”
— S., 47
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Book a free, no-pressure 20-minute chat — no assumptions, no judgement, just a conversation.